Is it alright to hide things like meeting someone in an airport and chatting with them, and then keeping in touch with them from your partner?
Let's say your partner is very open and talks about everything to you, and both of you are honest with one another; so is it fair if you hide things from each other at times especially when it concerns meeting and making new friends with someone of the opposite sex.
Do you not tell because you just simply didn't t think it was important, or you don't want your partner to know and be jealous or suspicious, or you just want to have some fun on the side and hope you will not be found out.
If nothing comes out of it then no harm done for not telling and you have a new friend of the opposite sex.
But what happens when you get found out, or you casually develop a liking for your newfound friend, and things progress deeper and you develop feelings.
Have you been fair to your partner?
If you are still new in a relationship and this happens, it may be the case that you are not ready for a serious relationship and commitment with your partner.
If this happens when you are already together for a long time, more than three years for example, it could be a case of boredom. I may be generalizing too much here, but bottom line is if you hide something from your partner you probably have to ask yourself this; why am I doing this?
Let's say your partner is very open and talks about everything to you, and both of you are honest with one another; so is it fair if you hide things from each other at times especially when it concerns meeting and making new friends with someone of the opposite sex.
Do you not tell because you just simply didn't t think it was important, or you don't want your partner to know and be jealous or suspicious, or you just want to have some fun on the side and hope you will not be found out.
If nothing comes out of it then no harm done for not telling and you have a new friend of the opposite sex.
But what happens when you get found out, or you casually develop a liking for your newfound friend, and things progress deeper and you develop feelings.
Have you been fair to your partner?
If you are still new in a relationship and this happens, it may be the case that you are not ready for a serious relationship and commitment with your partner.
If this happens when you are already together for a long time, more than three years for example, it could be a case of boredom. I may be generalizing too much here, but bottom line is if you hide something from your partner you probably have to ask yourself this; why am I doing this?
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