You, yes you, darling complete yourself

Sometimes in the process of wanting something so badly, we lose sight on the reason as to why we are doing it. Many a time it's to feel secure and loved, and we try to look outside of ourselves to fill this void. 

In actual fact, we need to work on ourselves first, and to be a complete, happy and confident person who doesn't need someone to complete us. 

That someone who we meet and is in our life should just be a bonus that takes our lives to a higher state of fulfillment. With or without this person, we can be complete and happy with ourselves. We look inward for our own happiness and anything outward that we connect with is just an added bonus.

Relationships will be so much easier if individuals come into it as a whole person, instead of looking towards each other to fill in the gaps that are lacking within oneself. Sooner or later when this person is unable to constantly prove to be supporting that emptiness or 'thing' that is lacking, discontentment arises and then the unhappiness surface, and tears the relationship apart. Simply because we chose to be in a relationship when we were not ready and for all the wrong reasons.

Get to know yourself. Because you, and only you can complete yourself. To be happy and fulfilled within is your goal, and not others. You decide on your happiness.