So your man is having mid-life crisis?

Yesterday while I was having dinner with my daughter, I looked across the room  to the other table and saw two elderly women. Both looked like they were in their 60's, and both looked well-groomed and obviously came from affluent backgrounds. 

With their coiffured hair, and classy dressing, it crossed my mind if they were still married and if yes, to their first husbands. 

Older men, especially those who go through bad mid-life crisis tend to look for younger women to make them feel good! I've had a few male friends of mine go through similar experiences, many ending up in divorces and mostly going on to the second phases of their lives with younger women in tow.

If a guy suddenly wakes up one morning and notices that he is overweight, has receding hairline and is no longer appealing to the opposite sex,  and by that I mean younger women in their twenties, they kinda freak out. 

These group of men probably have reached a certain level of accomplishment in their careers hence they are looking outward for superficial things that can make them feel better about themselves.

 I''ve spoken to a few guys, and they have confided in me that they feel that they need a fresh start in life and to actually enjoy live life to the fullest and more often than not the more pathetic the guys are the more they have a distorted sense of self-worth. They need a younger woman to make them feel young again. A new super bike just doesn't cut it anymore. 

So that leaves me wondering to all the older women out there who are abandoned by their husbands for younger women;  how do they feel about it and what do they do with themselves?

Do they start dating again and this time with younger men so they feel better about themselves? 

Or are they comfortable in their own skin and get busy doing things they had once sacrificed because they were busy doing all the things their husbands wanted when they were still married.

I'm gonna try and speak to women in similar situations and get the answers .

Till then, here's wishing you much love:)